
SAPPHIC TEMPLE
An erotic exploration of sapphic pleasure, consent, and embodied desire
manhattan | AUG 16 | 7PM-MIDNIGHT
for the FEMMES ANd thems
Hi Jordy here. For the past 6 years I have been working deeply in the queer community — especially with folks coming out later in life. What I noticed at one retreat I was facilitating for late-blooming lesbians was the transformative power of safe spaces to explore sapphic intimacy.
When we say sapphic, we’re speaking to the magnetic, soft, queer love that exists between women and femme-aligned people. It doesn’t require a label, just a curiosity or desire to explore connection, sensuality, or intimacy with other femmes and thems.
I wanted to start this info with this because as you read through I invite you to make an informed decision based on how you feel with certain words and I want to share as much about the flavour of the night as possible so that you can feel if this is something that your body wants to be amongst. I host many different flavours of temple and this one is truly a dedication to sapphism.
what is temple?
There are so many ways to describe temple, so let me start by saying what this is not.
It’s not a workshop — although we will be doing connection, communication and consent practices so that you can truly feel a deep level of embodied safety and agency before entering a space of erotic exploration.
It’s not a sex party — although this is absolutely a space that celebrates authentic, consenting and curious sharing of eros.
It’s also not a fast food hook-up space — this temple is first and foremost for you to come home to your pleasure, your body, and to feel the sweet truth of your sapphicness in a safe, loving environment. And then, from the overflow of that self-filling-up, entering into (if it feels true for you) a space of shared devotion.
For me, temple means devotion — a co-creation to celebrate sapphic intim, and to melt in the safety that is available when entering a space that is completely dedicated to the lived experience of sapphic love and longing.
why this, why now?
well firstly just because. because we matter, because we deserve spaces like this AND annndd with the current political climate amplifying this untruth of queer irreverence there has never been a more important time to give reprieve to the parts of ourselves that feel violated, unsafe and in a state of survival. When we come back to our bodies and the power of our pleasure —
we remember that joy is resistance, softness is strength, and queerness is holy.
We create new worlds when we gather like this.
Worlds where we don’t just survive… we melt, we play, we worship, we thrive
the juicy breakdown
the juicy breakdown
AKA WHAT EVEN HAPPENS AT A sapphic TEMPLE
EARLY
Arriving at 6/630pm for a 7pm start
This sapphic begins with everything your body craves to open, soften, and thrive. Together with Tricia, I’ll be guiding you through tender connection rituals and juicy somatic practices that awaken your inner yes, support you in feeling your boundaries, and honour the full, glorious spectrum of what’s alive in you.
We’ll create a shared field of trust, a space where your nervous system can exhale, your heart can gently open, and your pleasure has full permission to be. We all know what it feels like to live in a society that tries to dim your light - that deems the queer lived experience as less than and how that can have how bodies feeling as though they are in constant state of survival. It is our greatest hope that this part of the temple feels like a big exhale.
think breathwork, eye gazing, self pleasure and a complete filling up of your own pleasure cup Both solo and partnered exercises will be explored here.
LATER
playtime
we open up the evening to queer deliciousness, think cuddles, being witnessed, choosing what your own sapphic adventure, making out with hotties and filling your queer heart up. There will be spaces dedicated to certain experiences (tantric p*ssy massage, cuddle puddles, solo spaces)
closing & aftercare
There will be plenty of space for aftercare before we have group shares and a little ritual to close the space.
consent
& communication
are sexy.
There is no rush, the pace is determined by you. Here your agency and autonomy are completely celebrated.
SAPPHIC TEMPLE IS
a safe space for you to come just as you are
clothing optional and non penetrative
there are non erotic spaces to be alone
completely sober event
a tender environment where all emotions are welcomed and celebrated
your yes is celebrated and your no is holy
held by experienced facilitators who have dedicated their work and life to supporting the queer community and destigmatising pleasure and sex
a loving space of sapphic worship
for the curious babes
that don’t yet identify as queer
this space is for you babe, We have crafted this space with you in mind and as someone who came out nearing my 30s and battled with tones of internalised homophobia and feelings of not being gay enough - i intimately understand this beautiful curious stage. You just as you are is perfect and know this is the space for you. Similarly if you are feeling nervous - yum babe, that’s perfect and exactly why we have crafted a slow burn to ease you into the juicy tenderness of queer intimacy.
Meet the facilitator
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Hi, I’m Jordana Ezra, a certified somatic sexologist passionate about helping queer babes feel deeply connected to their bodies and queerness. I know what it’s like to carry shame around your pussy, your desires, and your right to take up space as a queer person. For years, I struggled to feel “enough,” faking confidence while feeling so disconnected inside. That’s why I’ve devoted my life to creating safe, celebratory spaces where you can unravel that shame, reconnect with your body, and discover the pleasure and freedom you’ve always deserved. Through trauma-informed somatic practices, tantra, and years of working with queer-bodied humans, I help you build trust with your body, embrace your desires, and live unapologetically in your pleasure. This isn’t about perfection; it’s about learning to listen to your body, honour your boundaries, and say a full-bodied yes to your queerness and pussy. You’re worthy of a life where you feel confident, turned on, and fully in love with who you are. And I’m here to walk that journey with you
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